This is what love's got to do with happiness in life

Michigan [USA], July 23 : Researchers from the Michigan State University conducted one of the first studies of its kind to quantify the happiness of married, formerly married and single people at the end of their lives to find out just how much love and marriage played into the overall well-being.
The study -- published in the Journal of Positive Psychology -- examined the relationship histories of 7,532 people followed from ages 18 to 60 to determine who reported being happiest at the end of their lives.
"People often think that they need to be married to be happy, so we asked the questions, 'Do people need to be in a relationship to be happy? Does living single your whole life translate to unhappiness? What about if you were married at some point but it didn't work out?,'" said William Chopik, MSU assistant professor of psychology and co-author of the paper.
"Turns out, staking your happiness on being married isn't a sure bet," added Chopik.
Chopik and Mariah Purol, MSU psychology master's student and co-author, found that participants fell into one of three groups: 79 per cent were consistently married, spending the majority of their lives in one marriage; 8 per cent were consistently single, or, people who spent most of their lives unmarried; and 13 per cent had varied histories, or, a history of moving in and out of relationships, divorce, remarrying or becoming widowed.
The researchers then asked participants to rate overall happiness when they were older adults and compared it with the group into which they fell.
"We were surprised to find that lifelong singles and those who had varied relationship histories didn't differ in how happy they were. This suggests that those who have 'loved and lost' are just as happy towards the end of life than those who 'never loved at all'," said Purol.
While married people showed a slight uptick in happiness, Purol said the margin was not substantial -- nor what many may expect. If the consistently married group answered a 4 out of 5 on how happy they were, consistently single people answered a 3.82 and those with varied history answered a 3.7.
"When it comes to happiness, whether someone is in a relationship or not is rarely the whole story. People can certainly be in unhappy relationships, and single people derive enjoyment from all sorts of other parts of their lives, like their friendships, hobbies and work," Chopik said.
"In retrospect, if the goal is to find happiness, it seems a little silly that people put so much stock in being partnered," added Chopik.
If someone longs for a lifelong partner to start a family and build a happy life together, Chopik and Purol's research suggests that if that individual isn't completely happy to begin with, getting married won't likely dramatically change it all.
"It seems like it may be less about the marriage and more about the mindset. If you can find happiness and fulfillment as a single person, you'll likely hold onto that happiness -- whether there's a ring on your finger or not," Purol said.